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DEAR ANGELA

WHAT IS AN OBE? PLEASE COMMENT.

Dear Reader,

This is short for an out of body experience. Many people feel that we all experience these when sleeping.
I do. I think we cavort with spirits/guides and in doing so, we gain the guidance/direction we need. I think
we give up consciousness of these experiences when we awaken, but we have the essence of these visits
and the information imparted to us is within us when needed.
Sometimes, we may awaken to find we are hovering outside our own body. I had this experience, and while
in that state, witnessed my son who was also out of body. Then next day, he reported the same experience
to me. I am sure you have heard of people having these when they have had a near death experience, etc.
Some people experience a shaking or will feel a THUMP when they return to their body tho they may or
may not recall much else.
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DEAR ANGELA

WHAT IS A SOUL CONTACT AND HOW DO I DO THAT?

Dear Reader,

It is technique where you allow your spirit to connect with another in a unique and conscious way. Doing
this, many believe, can allow you to see the faces of one's past lives even. Some say it is a mere
hallucination but you can be the judge.

Sit upright in a chair facing your partner, with your knees perhaps 6-12 inches apart from theirs. Close
your eyes. Take a cleansing breath, then sit calmly until you get a feel of the other person. You can
imagine your energy flowing to them.   When you sense them, simply open your eyes-- they may or may not
have opened theirs yet-- and gaze, not stare-- gaze-- into the other person's eyes.  In am few moments,
their face may appear to change.  Sometimes it is startling.

Do not do this over 15 minutes as more than that most likely will be an optical illusion.

DEAR ANGELA

CAN I COMMUNICATE PSYCHICALLY TO ANOTHER? I NEED TO SAY THINGS TO SOMEONE, BUT I AM NOT READY TO SAY THESE
THINGS ALOUD YET. CAN YOU HELP?

Dear Reader,

Try this exercise. When you are in a very relaxed state, imagine that you are talking to the person you wish
to speak too. (job interviewer, love interest, parent, judge, etc) The better you can visualize them,the
better. While you visualize or think of that person, tell them what you need to tell them. This is a "back
door" to their soul. While they (or you if you are on the receiving end) will not You really can't do this
without their permission, by the way, which I feel is usually unconsciously given. Do not do it but a couple
of times tho as you do not want to over do it, and they can shut the door too if you do that and you will
feel it sort of "bounce back."   You can talk to those who have passed on in the same way. Often this will
give one comfort if you can believe that the energy you are putting out there is being felt and heard, and  
but I honestly feel that it is.
Meanwhile however, you might find that this exercise will at least provide you with a practice or trial run for
what you need to say,and at best have them prepared for the actual conversation as they have already had
it in spirit.
Some people actually do this to someone they are wanting to meet romantically. They might mentally
"send" romantic images to someone they might meet in public. Often that person will start picking that
energy up and take note of it.. Thinking of course it was all their original idea.
As I said, you can't change someone's free will, nor should you even try, but you can use it as a form of
psychic communication.

DEAR ANGELA

WHAT CAN I DO TO HELP ME FIND A PARTNER, OR FIND A JOB, OR JUST MAKE A DECISION?


Dear Reader,

I have some homework for you: Make a list.

You may have heard me tell someone to do this, and the reason is, it works to help you to- first- clarify
what you would like to see happen, and secondly- it can help you manifest what you are hoping for.  
Often, we wish for something, our energy is scattered or confused, or maybe we are just not ready to have
things happen. Making a list in this way can help you cut to the chase.

First, get yourself in a calm mood by focusing on your breathing, or just do it when you can relax. I suggest
that you ask your guides to help you, or just say a prayer and ask for guidance. I say this because
sometimes we ask for things that are not in our best interest, or forget things that are important.  Don't
make this hard though, just relax.
Then, with your dominant hand, write whatever you are hoping for. IF you are hoping for a partner, list all
of the qualities you wish for, based on what you have learned about your needs so far. Don't hold back.  
Do not be so specific as to be ridiculous but do not be afraid to be somewhat specific at least as it helps
your focus and intention. (it is about balance) If you are hoping for certain things, for example-- perhaps a
home-- list the things you would like to see in a home. List the things you would like to see in your life, etc.  
Now, switch hands and use your other hand to add something to your list. Doing this switches sides of
your brain and gets you deeper in your spirit. Sometimes, it is surprising what you will think of.
When you are through, put the list away.  Think of it like making a stew, and now you are putting in the
crock pot to simmer, ha-ha.  Try and forget it, as I feel that when you relegate this to the unconscious
mind, it actually has more power.  Be aware that you cannot alter another person's free will when you do
this.
Doing this homework may help you, so give it a try and see how it goes. One more thing: every day, envision
the outcome you wish you == there is a certain power in day dreaming. Focus on what is at hand and do
not worry so much about the final outcome, but just keep that vision in mind.  When you drift off to sleep
at night, imagine things being the way you hope.  Let the universe worry about how you get to that vision--
often, in hindsight, you will see connections and how you were led to that reality you hoped for.
Keep an open mind and heart as desires can change, and again, ask for guidance to help make the best
decisions for your life.
Good luck!